1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,445 As we said, thinking about money in the right way is a difficult thing to do so we 2 00:00:03,445 --> 00:00:05,356 find tricks to think about it in a wrong way. 3 00:00:05,356 --> 00:00:09,376 And one of those tricks is thinking about money in relative rather than absolute 4 00:00:09,376 --> 00:00:16,951 terms. So let me first give you some examples to 5 00:00:16,951 --> 00:00:26,275 how to, how to think about it. A very classic and standard example is the 6 00:00:26,275 --> 00:00:29,931 following. Imagine you're going to buy a pen, and you 7 00:00:29,931 --> 00:00:32,933 find a pen that you like and that pen is $15. 8 00:00:32,933 --> 00:00:36,908 And as you're about to check it at the cashier, the cashier tells you, you know 9 00:00:36,908 --> 00:00:38,660 what? You have such a lovely face. 10 00:00:38,660 --> 00:00:43,723 You have such a lovely smile. I don't want to abuse you, so I'll tell 11 00:00:43,723 --> 00:00:50,114 you what, our competitor sells the exact same pen instead of for $15 for $7. 12 00:00:50,115 --> 00:00:54,467 It's three blocks down the street, it's up to you if you want to buy the pen here or 13 00:00:54,467 --> 00:00:57,410 go to this other place and now you can think to yourself. 14 00:00:57,410 --> 00:01:02,014 Would you walk three blocks down the street, to save $8 on this pen? 15 00:01:02,014 --> 00:01:06,427 And most people when given this decision, say yes, I will do that. 16 00:01:06,428 --> 00:01:10,495 Now imagine a slightly different case. You're coming and you're buying a camera, 17 00:01:10,495 --> 00:01:12,481 it's an expensive camera, its cost: $1,015. 18 00:01:12,482 --> 00:01:16,842 And as you're about to check out, the salesperson says you know what, you have 19 00:01:16,842 --> 00:01:19,709 such a lovely face, you have such a lovely smile. 20 00:01:19,710 --> 00:01:23,900 I'll tell you what. Our competitor is selling the same exact 21 00:01:23,900 --> 00:01:29,595 camera, three blocks down the street for $8 dollars less, instead of $1,015, for 22 00:01:29,595 --> 00:01:33,616 $1,007.00 dollars. Would you now take the trip down to the 23 00:01:33,616 --> 00:01:37,770 other store to buy the camera? And most people now say, absolutely not. 24 00:01:37,770 --> 00:01:42,432 Now the reality is that your checking account doesn't care where the $8 came 25 00:01:42,432 --> 00:01:47,168 from, they came from a pen, or they came from a camera, or they came from a small 26 00:01:47,168 --> 00:01:50,287 amount of purchase, or a big amount of purchase. 27 00:01:50,287 --> 00:01:56,650 But we care, $8 from 15 looks like a really big amount, more than half, $8 from 28 00:01:56,650 --> 00:02:01,653 1,015 looks like a tiny amount, doesn't seem to be worth it. 29 00:02:01,653 --> 00:02:07,038 Or think about the following example. Imagine you buying a car, you're going to 30 00:02:07,038 --> 00:02:12,040 buy a car, the car is $40,000 and the sales person tells you that for $2,000 31 00:02:12,040 --> 00:02:16,823 more you could get leather seats. Now I'm not really sure what the benefit 32 00:02:16,823 --> 00:02:21,651 of leather seats are, but let's say that there are benefits for the leather seats, 33 00:02:21,651 --> 00:02:25,628 and the question is, is it worth $2,000 when you buy a $40,000 car. 34 00:02:25,628 --> 00:02:30,787 Or imagine the second case, you going to buy a chair for your office and the sales, 35 00:02:30,787 --> 00:02:36,177 the sales person tells you that for $2,000 more, the chair costs $500, and for $2,000 36 00:02:36,177 --> 00:02:39,830 more you could get the leather seat. Would you do it? 37 00:02:39,830 --> 00:02:43,414 Now for most people they would say the first one is an easy decision the second 38 00:02:43,414 --> 00:02:47,502 one seem offensive. Spend $2,000 more on a $500 chair, just to 39 00:02:47,502 --> 00:02:50,426 get leather. Now presumably, you sit more in your 40 00:02:50,426 --> 00:02:54,584 office chair then in the car and whatever the benefits are from leather would be 41 00:02:54,584 --> 00:02:58,367 higher in the office then in the car, but that's not how we think about it. 42 00:02:58,368 --> 00:03:04,346 You spend $40,000, $2,000 seems very small, you spend $500, $2,000 looks 43 00:03:04,346 --> 00:03:08,015 incredibly large. And here's another example. 44 00:03:08,016 --> 00:03:13,148 If you're like me, a couple of times, we've renovated, our house. 45 00:03:13,148 --> 00:03:17,234 And when you renovate your house, the contractors come and give you an initial 46 00:03:17,234 --> 00:03:20,954 price and then there's all kinds of options for upgrades and changes and so 47 00:03:20,954 --> 00:03:23,906 on. And what I found myself doing, and I think 48 00:03:23,906 --> 00:03:28,815 it's universal, is making very, very quick decisions on big sums of money. 49 00:03:28,816 --> 00:03:31,914 Why? Because the renovation is incredibly 50 00:03:31,914 --> 00:03:36,378 expensive, so all of a sudden spending only, you know, x extra thousands of 51 00:03:36,378 --> 00:03:41,058 dollars on, you know, better tile or French something or another or Italian or 52 00:03:41,058 --> 00:03:45,320 counter tops or granite, all of a sudden seems like a good, a good deal. 53 00:03:45,320 --> 00:03:50,010 But at the same day, that they spend this huge amount of money in a quick decision, 54 00:03:50,010 --> 00:03:54,630 I can go to the supermarket and look very carefully, do I want the more expensive 55 00:03:54,630 --> 00:03:58,420 tomatoes then the cheaper tomatoes. Which one makes more sense? 56 00:03:58,420 --> 00:04:03,586 Now my whole life of making decisions about tomatoes could not sum up to that 57 00:04:03,586 --> 00:04:07,444 snap decision I made a few hours ago with the contractor. 58 00:04:07,444 --> 00:04:12,500 But because the amount of money we start with, with the contractor is so large, 59 00:04:12,500 --> 00:04:16,098 it's incredibly easy to make snap quick decisions. 60 00:04:16,099 --> 00:04:20,166 And by the way all of this also should tell you that there are probably ways to 61 00:04:20,166 --> 00:04:23,714 think about how to fight this. That what we don't want to do, is we don't 62 00:04:23,714 --> 00:04:27,716 want to make a decision based on something relative that we're spending, we want to 63 00:04:27,716 --> 00:04:32,044 think about them as independent. And the question is how can we do that? 64 00:04:32,044 --> 00:04:37,416 And now this, these decisions are not just about how we feel about spending money, 65 00:04:37,416 --> 00:04:42,048 they're also about happiness. So ask yourself for example, what would 66 00:04:42,048 --> 00:04:46,532 you prefer to be, to be a person that makes $90,000 a year, which is a very 67 00:04:46,532 --> 00:04:51,337 good, salary in a company where everyone makes between 90 and 100. 68 00:04:51,337 --> 00:04:58,520 So you're making 90, but you're the lowest paid employee, versus to work in a company 69 00:04:58,520 --> 00:05:05,351 that pays less, between 60 and 85,000 and you're the highest paid employee, you get 70 00:05:05,351 --> 00:05:08,615 85,000. So in an absolute way, you would get paid 71 00:05:08,615 --> 00:05:13,115 less in the second company, but in a relative way you would be at the top at 72 00:05:13,115 --> 00:05:17,020 you game, while in the first company you would be at the bottom. 73 00:05:17,020 --> 00:05:21,916 Now the interesting thing is when you ask people these choices next to each other, 74 00:05:21,916 --> 00:05:26,812 most people say I'll take the first one, I prefer to get more money and be the lowest 75 00:05:26,812 --> 00:05:29,864 paid employee. When you ask people where they would be 76 00:05:29,864 --> 00:05:33,983 happier with, most people recognize, they'll be probably happy in the second. 77 00:05:33,984 --> 00:05:38,290 Okay, So'll be the highest paid employee even if they get paid less for it. 78 00:05:38,290 --> 00:05:42,442 Now, this is an interesting question of yes, we do understand the issue of 79 00:05:42,442 --> 00:05:46,930 relativity and we do understand the influence of happiness, but are we willing 80 00:05:46,930 --> 00:05:49,610 to pay a premium for this increased happiness? 81 00:05:49,610 --> 00:05:55,466 And the answer is not so much. Now if you think about all these examples, 82 00:05:55,466 --> 00:06:01,937 of relativity, they all come about the fact that we have diminishing returns. 83 00:06:01,938 --> 00:06:05,732 We have this function in which our happiness starts very high, and then we 84 00:06:05,732 --> 00:06:09,292 have diminishing returns. And another way to think about it is that 85 00:06:09,292 --> 00:06:12,564 we think in terms of percentages, so ratio increases. 86 00:06:12,565 --> 00:06:17,858 So think about the following graph. What we have on the x-axis is the amount 87 00:06:17,858 --> 00:06:21,967 of money, the physical amount of money, how much is actually involved. 88 00:06:21,968 --> 00:06:26,250 And what we have on the y-axis is the psychological intensity of that. 89 00:06:26,250 --> 00:06:32,098 Now because this curve has a diminishing return shape function to it, what does it 90 00:06:32,098 --> 00:06:35,132 mean? It means that if we take an amount of 91 00:06:35,132 --> 00:06:39,987 money, on the x-axis, in the left side of the lower end of the scale. 92 00:06:39,988 --> 00:06:44,864 And we take an amount that is exactly the same in terms of the amount of money on 93 00:06:44,864 --> 00:06:49,202 the, far right, they project very different psychologically. 94 00:06:49,203 --> 00:06:54,130 So this is why, 7, 8 dollars out of 15, which is represented by the left two 95 00:06:54,130 --> 00:06:59,132 columns, look like it has a huge psychological effect between thirty and 96 00:06:59,132 --> 00:07:03,782 forty something on that scale. Where $8 on the right side of the scale, 97 00:07:03,782 --> 00:07:08,418 even though it has the same $8 effect, psychologically it has a much, much 98 00:07:08,418 --> 00:07:12,346 smaller effect. And this is basically the way that 99 00:07:12,346 --> 00:07:16,100 relativity works, and how diminishing returns work. 100 00:07:16,100 --> 00:07:23,520 And why the same physical amount in terms of money has very different psychological 101 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:24,953 implications.