Unconditional Love II

Unconditional love is all it takes to trust all the relationships in the
way they happen, and with whom they happen. The idea is to be a shining and
bright transparent crystal.  When you are a shining and bright transparent
crystal then nothing impedes the flow of your radiant light so that others
may be served by it.  When you are a transparent crystal, the light from
other individuals passes through you, except for the light you choose to
absorb.  Other individuals' negative light therefore cannot possibly affect
you unless you choose to become opaque and absorbent to it.

Remember that when you operate on a particular frequency, even if another
individual has a negative intention towards you, you will translate their
energy into positive manifestation in your life.  That effect is the gift
of Unconditional Love.  The word is quite literal in meaning, unconditional
love.

Therefore, now you can involve yourself in relationships to the full
capacity of your curiosity and excitement.  Since you now know every single
individual is a being of vision and creativity you can support them in the
following way: encourage them to do in their life with integrity the thing
that excites them the most.  Support them in their ability to be able to do
that thing.

To create loving and creative relationships you can create for them
situations that will allow them to become more fulfilled in the thing that
excites them the most.  You can be aware of things that would excite them
and let them know about it.  You can give them gifts that are particularly
important to the thing that allows them to become more excited about what
it is they enjoy, because you are in the relationship to serve them to
become most fully who it is they are excited about being.

And if the other individuals do not allow fear into their lives, they will
become just as supportive of you as well.  You will not have to see the
idea that you are each becoming strong individuals as something that pushes
you away from each other.  The only reason that happens now in your society
is because you are so interdependent on each other.  You say, "lf you
become stronger than I am, you won't have anyone to lean on."  But the
point is not to lean on anyone, the point is to support them.  And in
supporting them--you become supported. Always.  ALWAYS. The notion of
leaning on each other is simply the negative side; the interdependency is
the negative side of supporting each other.  The need for the other person
is the negative side in the sense that you cannot exist without them.

But you see, the paradox is that as soon as it's all right for them to
become as fully an individual as they are, you will probably remain in
contact forever.  The idea that you must mold them in a certain way in
order to remain in the relationship is not trusting what the relationship
is.