*Suicide*


Q:  Several weeks ago we spoke about my son that committed suicide... what
you shared has been extremely helpful.  One of the ideas mentioned is that
I had a conversation with my son at night in the dream state.  And I've
tried to meditate and get in touch with him.

B:  No trying.  If you are trying, the only thing you are doing is trying.
Remove the importance of needing the communication, then you will not
create a barrier that prevents the communication; you allow the
communication through.

Do recognize that when you try so hard, you tighten your focus about what
you think represents communication, and you narrow down the number of
symbols you will accept as communication.  You have been receiving
communication all the time but are invalidating the ways it comes to you,
because you want it in a specific way or you won't accept it as real.

Relax, expand and open to ALL the different ways messages and communication
come to you.  For do recognize this: the individual that committed suicide
is now in a totally different vibratory plane and there are many things
that they need to do.  The idea of their association to physiological
reality is not the same as it used to be, and they are not expected to
communicate on the same level with it any longer.

Therefore, recognize that the communication that comes from them to you,
comes in a very different way now; not with the same degree of focus.  It
can't, by definition.  Where they are now is more diffused and so the
communication will appear, perhaps, in different ways, in more expanded
ways, sometimes subtle, sometimes obvious.  But in ways that are a little
more expanded than the ways you normally expect to receive the idea you
call communication.

So soften up; spread out.  Flow into all of the different ways that
communication can be received and then you will touch those ways. And in
touching those ways you will feel the vibration of the communication that
is in those crevices; you will now flow into them in your relaxed state.
The idea is to meet them halfway.  And what that means is diffusing
yourself in an expanded manner, rather than forcing them to focus
themselves all the way back into physical reality.  Meet them halfway --
with your unconditional love.

Now, do recognize that when we say, "the communication may occur in
unexpected ways," that also has to do with time and duration.  For they now
operate in a totally different idea of time-track concepts. What may be to
you a flicker of a feeling may have been a very lengthy conversation for
them.  But the feeling, the knowing, just the awareness of presence may be
a total communication, which may come out, in your terminology, may "leap
into your physiological reality" at a different rate: later.  Maybe in your
dreams, maybe in the symbols you see appearing in your lives, maybe a
passage in one of your books, maybe a line you hear someone say.  Who
knows?  /ALL is synchronicity and it is all there for a reason./  There are
no accidents. Everything is the same One thing, manifesting Itself in
multidimensional ways, manifesting different aspects, simultaneously. Tap
into that and then you will find there is communication going on everywhere
all the time.

Q:  My husband passed away a year ago.  About six months later I had a
dream that he returned and that we were hugging each other... it was very,
very real.  I looked at him and l said, "Are you really here?"  And he
said, "Yes, I'm really here."  I wondered if you'd give me an idea if he
really was in the dream?

B:  Oh, yes, yes.  Six months was the time span he required for orientation
to the new reality level.  After that adjustment period the timing was
correct for him to let you know that everything is fine and that he's quite
busy learning about his new reality level.  And, to let you know that, from
time to time, he can check in, in a sense, giving you some advice, some
suggestions, as a guide from his new perspective.  But yes, it was, in that
sense, a real encounter; letting you know he is all right and to let you
know that you can both send and receive information between you.

Yes, you are never out of touch.  What you call physical death truly, truly
is only like stepping from one room to another room in the same house,
really no more difference than that.  Just operating in a different
modality.

Very often it is easier in physical reality for you to communicate with
beings in non-physical reality through your dreams, because all your
expectations are dropped in the dream state.  In a sense, you are actually
more of your "true self" in dreams, where you are an unlimited being, and
therefore, are more easily capable of receiving communications from other
beings on that level.  Yes, of course it was real.

Q:  Thank you very much.

B:  Oh, thank you.  I had nothing to do with it.

Q:  Thanks anyway.