*Soulmates*


           Q/:/    I wonder if you could tell me when that special someone
           will come into my life?

           B:    You mean /that/ special someone, or /that/ special someone?
           (Pointing at audience members) Or what about that one?

           Q/:/    Any of them.

           B:    Well, what about the one right there'?

           Q/:/    The special soulmate.

           B:    Special soulmate. Are you aware of some of the things we
           have already discussed about this idea?

           Q/:/    Um, I'm not sure.

           B:    All right. Do you understand what our definition of a
           soulmate is?

           Q/:/    I don't know; this is my first time here.

           B:    Oh, all right. Mine too. In that sense, recognize: every
           relationship -  I will be brief, every relationship serves a
           purpose, is there for a reason. On the fundamental level,
           because you are always learning what you need to learn about
           yourself in any relationship - are being of service to the other
           individual in that relationship, to allow them to learn what
           they need to learn about themselves, to grow and learn - every
           relationship is a relationship with a soulmate, in the
           fundamental sense of the word. Understand so far?

           Q/:/    Yes.

           B:    Now, we know what you often mean in your society by the
           idea of "a soulmate," and that does exist. However, more often
           than not, we have discovered that in your society the attitude
           will usually be as follows: that if only you could discover your
           soulmate, then everything would be just wonderful, but not until
           then.

           Your physical reality is the product of your strongest
           definitions and your strongest beliefs, if you believe you are
           incomplete without that person, you will usually wind up only
           attracting someone to reflect your belief in your own
           incompleteness.

           When you know you /are/ complete unto yourself -  not that you
           will not change and grow, but as you are, you are still a whole
           idea, and your first relationship is to yourself, and with the
           Infinite -- when you act in that manner, and radiate that
           frequency, that's when you give off the vibration that gives
           someone else in your life that you may have made an agreement
           with, to come into your life to reflect back to you as an /equal/
           to the vibration you are already putting out.

            If you already shine as the brightest light you can, then
            someone on the same level - as a mirror, as all of you are to
            each other - can reflect that light back to you. The brightest
            light that can be reflected back to you can only be as bright as
            the light you are. Understand?

            Q:    I understand.


            B:    That is what you typically call the soulmate. And it can
            exist in your reality. It doesn't always have to be a single
            individual, but it can be.


            Q:    Thank you.