SOUL MATES


We have heard many times the idea upon your planet you call "soul mate" and
that idea certainly can exist. It is simply representative of a particular
kind of agreement that has been made. But do remember that every individual
you interact with serves you by reflecting to you what you need to know at
that moment.

Therefore, by the fundamental definition of soul mate, every individual you
interact with at any particular moment is for that moment your soul mate-
because they serve you best at that moment.

As we have mentioned before, our society does recognize that now and then
there can be single individuals who match themselves for the duration of a
life span who can provide for each other all the reflections that each
other needs to see in order to grow in the way they want to. But we do not
put an expectation on the relationship that it "must" be that way and we do
not know if it is a "one-on-one"
until we reach the end of the life span. We look back and say, "Well, it
seems no one else came along but you...so I guess that was a one-on-one."

We do not put expectations on how it must be; we do not regret how it was
or was not because we live in the moment and trust ourselves. So when you
live in the moment and you trust yourself by being the fullest individual
you can be you will always attract whoever is appropriate for that moment.
They can serve you to become who you want to be and you can serve them to
allow them to become more of who they want to be. That's what relationships
are for: looking into a
mirror and seeing another aspect of yourself.

Once again, you can simply understand that an individual who needs to learn
a certain thing may attach themselves to another individual who has already
learned it. The idea is, you are being of service. After all, if you say
you love this individual then you are desirous of serving them to be who
they want to be.