*Roommates*


Q:  I have a question concerning one of my housemates.

B:  Yes.

Q:  She goes through very strong mood swings, which she attributes to PMS,
and I have a question in terms of, I suppose, how to... for myself... how
to deal with her incredible mood swings.  And also, is there something that
she could do - either in terms of meditation, or diet, or something to
center...

B:  Do you think she would trust her imagination to give her what she
needs? Or do you think she believes in her own victimhood more?

Q:  She's slowing learning to trust her imagination, but she's still...

B:  All right.  Is she doing what excites her the most in life?

Q:  Not at all.

B:  Perhaps any frustration that she has may stem from that.

Q:  I'm sure it does.

B:  Then you can suggest that if she is willing to trust it, doing what
excites her will support her and sustain her - rejuvenate her.

Q:  Okay. I had another question in terms of my relationship with her: we
seem to create a very chaotic energy, and things are breaking all the time,
and...

B:  Perhaps when you do not impose so many limitations, then the walls and
the objects in your reality will not be within striking distance, nor need
to be broken to allow you to stretch beyond -- to feel as if you have room
to move, without everything being so fragile.

You are simply recognizing the interconnectedness of everything, but you
are still recognizing it with some degree of fear, negativity. You think
that because everything is close at hand and interconnected, then that
means that one thing can affect another in a negative way very easily - and
of course if you believe that, it can.

One thing will always lead to, and connect to, another. And if you believe
the idea to be fragile to begin with, then it will be no surprise that one
broken energy will allow another energy to reflect itself in that state.
But if you recognize that the interconnectedness of everything is what
allows it to be strong, then you can EXPAND IT to infinite depths and it
will never weaken, it will never become thin, it will never break, it will
never become uncohesive.

You do not need to have everything, so to speak, right in front of your
analytical scrutiny in order to feel that you have a handle on it. Because
then there is /so/ much focus, so much pressure, that it crushes the idea
before you.  Are you following this?

Q:  All right. To some extent.

B:  We recognize it is, in your terms, metaphorical: but we are sensing an
energy dance, an energy orchestration. You are pivoting and pirouetting
around each other as polarity reflections. The idea simply can be that if
you are willing to look at the reflections in each other and allow them to
be of service, then you do not have to allow the mirrors, that you are, to
break. You do not have to be shattered by the reflections you receive from
each other.

Q:  Are the reflections that we're receiving the negative, the negativity
or...

B:  Some of it can be. If you are willing to recognize all the reflections
as positive, however, you need not have any negative effect or experience
from your perception of them.

In a sense, the idea can be likened unto what some individuals will do
remotely - what you call poltergeist phenomena. Where there are the flying
around of objects and the breaking of objects, 99.9% of the time, as you
would say, it is actually an extension of the individual's energy, not
another consciousness.

So in this way, all the fragility, the breaking of things, is simply one
more reflection of energy that you are not dealing with that goes into the
breaking down of the symbols in your reality. Now this can have a positive
meaning, you can allow the breaking asunder of the symbols to also mean
that you do not need some, or any symbols.

So you do not have to look for so many symbols, in an analytical sense, in
order to understand each other, you can have direct knowing, direct feeling
of each other.  You do not have to act through many symbols, which are only
your illusionary projections and may not be strong enough to contain the
energy that you are.

They will break apart if you try to imbue the symbols around you with the
power for allowing you to understand the situation you are in. For the
understanding must always come back to you. The symbols around you
breaking, may be an inherent belief which you have within yourself that to
take all that power within yourself would destroy you.

But you do not have to fear that. You are infinite, you are indestructible.
And it will not feel like pressure if you are willing to accept the
reflections within each other as positive messages, positive sharings,
positive interactions. And be willing -- be /willing/ -- to state whom you
are without having to accuse the other individual. Be willing to state who
you are; strengthen yourself; stand up for yourself.

Share with them your viewpoints as to how they may - not that they have to
- but how they may be able to allow themselves to regain their own self-
empowerment, their own strength.  Allow them to know that they can do what
excites them, and you can do what excites you.  And then together, you will
reflect and parallel each other's strength in your excitement, in your
ecstasy, in your sharing. You follow me?

Q:  Yes, I do.

B:  Thank you very much.

Q:  Thank you.