*Bashar:*
Channeled by
Darryl Anka
From: Respecting Your Choices
Thousand Oaks, CA
10-3-97


 All right I'll say good day to you this day of your time, how are you all?
 Once again we extend to you, first of all our deep appreciation for
allowing this communication to occur in this way.  Once again, each and
every time your civilization allows this communicated link to be created
between our respected worlds it affords us an opportunity to experience an
expansion of creation by being allowed to interact with each and everyone
of you and the unique perspective of the infinite that each and everyone of
you represents.  So we thank you for this expansive gift of sharing and we
would like to begin this transmission this day of your time with the
following idea that we would like to call "respecting your choices".

We have over the time that we have been communicating with your world
listened to many of you talking about the choices that you have made in
certain circumstances that bring about certain kinds of consequences and we
/hear/ from time to time many of you bemoaning the choices that you have
made, bemoaning the consequences that arise from those choices.  In the
following manner usually: 'Oh I've  made a bad choice.  Now I have
something that I don't want.  This is wrong, this is bad this is not going
to get me where I want to be' and so on and other variations of that idea
and that theme.  But please understand that when you do not respect the
choices that you make no matter what they are,  then you are not respecting
yourself, for the choices are  intimately  bonded to who you are at that
moment and are the result of who you know yourself to be at that moment.
They are at that moment, for all intents and purposes, the best that you
can do, the best that you know how to choose, and thus you must respect
them if you are to respect yourself.  And by disrespecting  the choices
that you make, by assuming that the choices that you make are bad or wrong
then you are in some sense judging yourself, finding yourself lacking ,
coming up short, being yourself bad or wrong and not giving yourself the
due respect that would /allow you/ to understand how to extracted from the
consequences of any choice the information and the experience that you need
in order to create what it is you prefer.

 Now again, let me remind you, let us listen to that word-prefer.  You can
recognize that the consequence of a particular choice may not be what you
prefer but that doesn't mean that the choice and the consequence was bad or
wrong just because it may not have resulted in what you prefer.  The idea,
again, is that when many of you talk about certain choices and there
consequences being bad or wrong, and thus are disrespecting yourself,  you
are also making the assumption that the circumstance that has resulted from
the choice that you have made is somehow /incapable/ of connecting you to
what you want-and this is not true.  Every single choice you make and every
single consequence that results from that choice has equal capability with
and other choice  and consequence of still connecting you to what you
prefer.  But you will not see that it does, you will not experience that it
has the ability to make that bridge for you to what you prefer if you
devalue it and disrespected it in the way that many of you have been taught
to do.

Again, this simply comes down to, once again, that if you are not of the
vibration you will not see the things that are germane to the reality that
goes hand in hand with that vibrational frequency.  So when you devalue the
choice that you have made, when you disrespected it, when you say it is no
good then you are actually robbing yourself, in a sense, of the ability to
see how that choice might contain the doorway, the link, the bridge to what
it is you do prefer.  You are simply removing its value to you and saying
that it has absolutely  no capacity whatsoever to open up a doorway in a
direction that you prefer.  But all choices are connected to all other
choices, all consequences, all circumstances and all situations are
connected to all others.  Why?  We have talked about this many times, the
answer is because all circumstances are *hear and now.* There is no such
thing as, in a sense, over there or back then.  Those are illusions of your
physical reality.  They are as real as you want to put stock in them to be,
but the idea really is, is that all situations are the *same* situation from
a *different point of view*.

Remember, many of you when you see someone else that you deem to be having
what you prefer, deem to be successful they have their own doorway that
they have walked through in order to manifest what they have manifested as
a result of the choices that they have made, and many of you assume that
what you want is their doorway, but you don't want their doorway, you want
your doorway.  Because only by walking through your doorway , the one
patterned after you with your name on it will you be capable of then
creating, or attracting, or manifesting your /version/  of that so called
success.  Your /version/ of that so called manifestation, if you attempt to
use their doorway it will not work because their doorway is tailored to
them.  Now, here again, is the secret-their doorway and your doorway are
the *same doorway.*  The same doorway, not the same kind of doorway, the same
doorway. But yours is seen from your angle, from your perspective.  It has
your quality, it has your reflection, it has your characteristics and the
same doorway for them, for the other person,  simply reflects their
characteristic, it is not a different doorway.  You have the same doorway
to walk through, the same avenue of opportunity, the same conduits as
everyone and anyone in creation, but it's not going to appear to be the
same because it's going to be colored with your reflections so that it will
*work* *for you.*  You don't want theirs you want yours.

 You want to understand who you are, you want to respect yourself, so that
you can see who you are in the doorway.  So that you can allow the doorway,
the mirror of reality, to show you who you are.  If you disrespect yourself
you devalue your doorway, you do not see the reflection that is there for
you. You do not see how to use it.  You can not understand how to walk
through it in the same way someone else understands how to walk through
their version of it, and you can not then reap the manifestation  that
comes from walking through and going to the other side of it.

 So please, please, please, please, please  as a strong suggestion, do not
devalue and disrespect yourself by disrespecting the choices that you make
and the consequences that result there from.

     Learn and understand that every choice is connected to every other,
that every circumstance is connected to every other and every circumstance,
if you choice to look at it without judgement, but with acceptance ,
acknowledgement , allowance and love, and creativity , imagination, and
inspiration will be capable , in its own way, , in its own way, yes , *in*
*its own way,*  will be capable of showing you how it contains all the same
opportunities to connect and manifest to anything else you want, even
though it may take a certain colorization, a certain characterization, just
because its coming from that perspective, it does not matter, it doesn't
mean that it can't do it.  You have to learn to accept it so that you  can
read its particular characteristics and symbols.  But every situation is
connected to every other and has the ability and has the capability  of
bring to your attention the appropriate information to allow you to
connect, to allow you to slide, to allow you to shift to any other  and
every other kind of situation that you may prefer to manifest.  And, if you
start /looking/ at every situation that way, you will see how they are all
one and the same but simply look different because they nothing more that a
different perspective, angle, or point of view--of the same one thing.
Because again remember:  there is only here , there is only now,  there is
only ONE MOMENT.   And in that one moment, and in that one moment that is
the eternal existence, all things happen.  Therefore /all things are all/
/other things in a different disguise from a different perspective  from a/
/different point of view./  There is only one creation  but it looks
different from every angle you can look.  Know that there is one, act like
there is one, don't devalue any manifestation of it  and you will see how
any manifestation connected to any other manifestation because all are the
same thing.  Does that make sense?  All right .

We thank you for allowing us to share this perspective.  We  know it will
work--if you choose to adopt it into your reality and adapt it to your
personal needs.  You don't have to take our word for it, you can get the
result if you utilize this tool, if you utilize this attitude and
perception. This is not philosophy, remember now, this is physics, this is
the way reality creation works.  You can use it, you can get the same
result as any one.  We do not insist that  you use it.  We are not telling
you what to do.  We have our own lives to live.

 We do not want to live yours but we are strongly suggesting that if this
is what you have asked for, in terms of what can I use, what tool, what
perspective can I understand?  So that I can treat myself with respect, in
the moment and live in the  moment, and experience my reality as a
manifestation of the moment.  This is one of the tools that can work for
you, if you take it to heart and apply it in your behavior day by day,
everyday, every moment of your life.  It's /up to you to find out, but I/
/guarantee if you use it, it will work but it is up to you?/

 Now, once again in return for allowing our civilization the great gift of
this sharing with your civilization I ask, in return, in what way may I and
my world be of service to you?

Q:   Bashar!

B:  You, good day....