*Respecting Your Choices*

                               October 3,1997



All right I'll say good day to you this day of your time, how are  you  all?
Once again we extend  to  you,  first  of  all  our  deep  appreciation  for
allowing this communication to occur in  this  way.  Once  again,  each  and
every time your civilization allows this communicated  link  to  be  created
between our respected worlds it affords us an opportunity to  experience  an
expansion of creation by being allowed to interact with  each  and  everyone
of you, and the unique perspective of the infinite that  each  and  everyone
of you represents. So we thank you for this expansive gift  of  sharing  and
we would like to begin this transmission this day  of  your  time  with  the
following idea that we would like to call "Respecting your Choices".

We have, over the time that we have  been  communicating  with  your  world,
listened to many of you talking about the choices  that  you  have  made  in
certain circumstances that bring about certain  kinds  of  consequences.  We
/hear,/ from time-to-time, many of you bemoaning the  choices  that  you  have
made, and bemoaning the consequences that arise from those choices.  In  the
following manner usually: "Oh I've made a bad choice. Now I  have  something
that I don't want. This is wrong, this is bad this is not going  to  get  me
where I want to be" and other variations of that idea and  that  theme.  But
please understand that when you do not respect the choices that you make  no
matter what they are, then you are not respecting yourself. For the  choices
are intimately bonded to who you are at that moment and are  the  result  of
who you know yourself to be at that moment. They are, at  that  moment,  for
all intents and purposes, the best that you can do, the best that  you  know
how to choose, and thus  you  must  respect  them  if  you  are  to  respect
yourself. By disrespecting the choices that you make, by assuming  that  the
choices that you make are bad, or  wrong,  then  you  are,  in  some  sense,
judging yourself. When finding yourself  lacking,  coming  up  short,  being
yourself bad or wrong, you are not giving  yourself  the  due  respect  that
would /allow you/ to understand how to extract from the  consequences  of  any
choice, the information and the experience that you need in order to  create
what it is you prefer.

Now again, let me remind you, let us listen to that word - prefer.  You  can
recognize that the consequence of a particular choice may not  be  what  you
prefer but that doesn't mean that the choice, and the consequence,  was  bad
or wrong just because it may not have  resulted  in  what  you  prefer.  The
idea, again, is that when many of you talk about certain choices  and  their
consequences being bad or wrong, and thus are  disrespecting  yourself,  you
are also making the assumption that the circumstance that has resulted  from
the choice that you have made is somehow  /incapable/  of  connecting  you  to
what you want - and this is not true.  Every  single  choice  you  make  and
every  single  consequence  that  results  from  that  choice,   has   equal
capability with any other choice and consequence of still connecting you  to
what you prefer. But you will not see that it does, you will not  experience
that it has the ability to make that bridge for you, to what you prefer,  if
you devalue it, and disrespected it, in the way that many of you  have  been
taught to do.

Again, this simply comes down to, once again, that if you  are  not  of  the
vibration you will not see the things that are germane to the  reality  that
goes hand in hand with that vibrational frequency. So when you  devalue  the
choice that you have made, when you disrespect it, when you  say  it  is  no
good, then you are actually robbing yourself, in a sense, of the ability  to
see how that choice might contain the doorway, the link, the bridge to  what
it is you do prefer. You are simply removing its value to  you,  and  saying
that it has absolutely no capacity whatsoever to open  up  a  doorway  in  a
direction that you prefer.  But all  choices  are  connected  to  all  other
choices;  all  consequences,  all  circumstances  and  all  situations   are
connected to all others. Why? We have talked  about  this  many  times.  The
answer is - /because all circumstances are/ */here and now/**.*  There  is  no  such
thing as, in a sense, over there, or back then. Those are illusions of  your
physical reality. They are as real as you want to put stock in them  to  be,
but the idea really is, /is that all situations are the/ */same/*  /situation  from/
/a/ */different point of view/*/./

Remember, many of you, when you see someone else that you deem to be  having
what you prefer, deem to be successful, they have  their  own  doorway  that
they have walked through in order to manifest what they have  manifested  as
a result of the choices that they have made. Many of you  assume  that  what
you want is their doorway, but you don't want their doorway, you  want  your
doorway.  Because only by walking through your doorway,  the  one  patterned
after you with your name on it, will you be capable  of  then  creating,  or
attracting, or manifesting your /version/ of  that  so  called  success.  Your
/version/ of that  so-called  manifestation,  if  you  attempt  to  use  their
doorway, it will not work because their doorway is tailored  to  them.  Now,
here again, is the secret /- their doorway and your  doorway,  are  the  same/
/doorway/*/./*  *The same doorway*!  */Not  the  same  kind  of  doorway  -  the  same/*
*/doorway./* But yours is seen from your angle, from your  perspective.  It  has
your quality, it has your reflection, it has your  characteristics  and  the
same  doorway  for  them,  for  the  other  person,  simply  reflects  their
characteristic, it is not a different doorway. You have the same doorway  to
walk through, the same avenue of opportunity, the same conduits as  everyone
and anyone in creation, but it's not going to appear to be the same  because
it's going to be colored with your reflections so  that  it  will  *work*  *for*
*you.*  You don't want theirs; you want yours.

You want to understand who you are. You want to respect  yourself,  so  that
you can see who you are in the doorway so that you can  allow  the  doorway,
the mirror of reality, to show you who you are. If you disrespect  yourself,
you devalue your doorway and you do not see the  reflection  that  is  there
for you. You do not see how to use it. You cannot  understand  how  to  walk
through it in the same way someone else  understands  how  to  walk  through
their version of it.  You cannot, then, reap the  manifestation  that  comes
from walking through and going to the other side of it.

So please, please, please, as  a  strong  suggestion,  do  not  devalue  and
disrespect yourself by disrespecting the choices  that  you  make,  and  the
consequences that result there from.

Learn and understand that every choice is connected  to  every  other;  that
every circumstance is connected to every other. Every circumstance,  if  you
choose  to  look   at   it   without   judgement,   but   with   acceptance,
acknowledgement, allowance, love, creativity, imagination,  and  inspiration
will be capable, in its own way - *yes,* *in its own way -* will be  capable  of
showing you how it contains  all  the  same  opportunities  to  connect  and
manifest to anything else you want.  Even  though  it  may  take  a  certain
colorization, a certain characterization,  just  because  it's  coming  from
that perspective, it does not matter, it doesn't mean that it can't  do  it.
You have to learn  to  accept  it  so  that  you  can  read  its  particular
characteristics and symbols.

Every situation is connected to every other and has  the  ability,  and  has
the capability, of bringing to your attention  the  appropriate  information
to allow you to connect, to allow you to slide, to allow  you  to  shift  to
any other, and every other,  kind  of  situation  that  you  may  prefer  to
manifest. If you start /looking/ at every situation that  way,  you  will  see
how they are all one and the same but simply  look  different  because  they
are nothing more than a different perspective, angle, or point of view -  of
the same one thing.  Because, again, remember - /there is  only  here,  there/
/is only now, there is only ONE MOMENT./ And in that one moment  that  is  the
eternal existence, all things happen. Therefore /all  things  are  all  other/
/things  in  a  different  disguise  from  a  different  perspective  from  a/
/different point of view./ There is only one creation but it  looks  different
from every angle you can look. Know that there is one,  act  like  there  is
one, don't devalue any manifestation  of  it,  and  you  will  see  how  any
manifestation is connected to any other manifestation, because all  are  the
same thing. Does that make sense?  All right.

We thank you for allowing us to share this  perspective.  We  know  it  will
work - if you choose to adopt it into your reality  and  adapt  it  to  your
personal needs. You don't have to take our word for  it;  you  can  get  the
result if you utilize this tool, if
you utilize this attitude and perception.




*This is not philosophy* - remember now - *this is physics*.  *This  is  the  way*
*reality creation works*. You can use it; you can get the same result  as  any
one. We do not insist that you use it. We are not telling you  what  to  do.
We have our own lives to live. We do not want to  live  yours,  but  we  are
strongly suggesting that if this is what you have asked  for,  in  terms  of
what can I use, what tool, what perspective can I understand so that  I  can
treat myself with respect, in the  moment,  and  live  in  the  moment,  and
experience my reality as a manifestation of the moment. This is one  of  the
tools that can work for you, if you take it to heart and apply  it  in  your
behavior day-by-day, everyday, every moment of your life. It's up to you  to
find out, but I guarantee if you use it, it will work, but it is up to  you.