*Relationships and Birth Agreements on Essassani*


Q:  My question is, I'm really interested in knowing: in your world, what
is a loving relationship like? How do you choose a partner in life?

*B:  Synchronistically, automatically. We simply attract ourselves to each*
*other. We allow it to automatically occur. It is much in the same way, to*
*some degree, that you allow your relationships to happen. But we also are*
*telempathically connected, and we allow ourselves to recognize that when we*
*do, in fact, draw ourselves into those automatic interactions, we allow*
*them to be what they are.*

*We do not put expectations upon them for what we think they ought to be. We*
*know that they are there to serve us; we know we are there to serve them.*
*So we rejoice in the spontaneous co-creation. And we do not put, in any*
*way, shape or form, any particular label as to how we think it should go,*
*or how we think it should wind up. Or will it be this way, or will it be*
*that? Or will there be anyone else?*

*Once again, perhaps, to put it in the simplest perspective: our entire*
*civilization is married to itself; every individual is married to every*
*other individual. And any relationship that occurs, in any way that it*
*occurs, with however many individuals it occurs, is a part of the marriage*
*- is relationship within the marriage.*

*There are times when it takes upon it the physical appearance of what you*
*would call a monogamous relationship; there are times when it doesn't. Just*
*as it occurs in your society. But there is a great deal of denial in your*
*society about that.*

*The idea, in that sense, therefore, is that we do not expect, or even*
*really know - just to point out this example, because it is germane to your*
*society - whether we have been in a monogamous relationship until we reach*
*the end of the life span.*

*And we say: "Well, no one else came along; I guess it was a one-on-one,*
*wasn't it?" Because we know, beyond a shadow of a doubt - in absolute trust*
*- that if any other relationships do automatically occur, then they are a*
*part of the overall relationship. They enhance the overall scenario, in*
*whatever way they naturally unfold; and there cannot be an interruption.*
*It's not possible in our society.*

*Q:  Well, if you were to decide to bring another being into your world,*
*what is...*

*B:  Understand that we are always in communication with that level of*
*consciousness as well. And we simply make our agreements consciously, even*
*as you can. It does not have to be a hidden thing. You can be in touch with*
*the beings that can be born unto you. For understand: they are not children*
*now. Understand?*

*Q:  I understand.*

*B:  You can be in touch with them. And you recognize that there are*
*services that you may want to perform; that this individual puts out, that*
*this individual - this non-physical individual - radiates a desire to*
*accomplish certain things, in what you call physiological manifestation.*

*In putting out that desire, and putting out that radiation, that individual*
*in our society simply automatically attracts only the individuals that have*
*the desire to serve him in that way. So it's automatic. There's no*
*wondering about it. The individuals that can be of service in that way are*
*only attracted to them. And only those individuals will be attracted to the*
*individuals that can serve them in that way.*

*Q:  Is that not so now, for us?*

*B:  It is absolutely so now that way, except you create negative*
*synchronicity, as well as positive synchronicity. We only create positive*
*manifestations. Understand?*

*Q:  I do indeed. Thank you.*

*B:  Thank you very much. Sharing!*