*Relationship Reflections*



Q:  I liked what you said the other night -- that love is telepathic.

B:  The idea that telepathy, while it may function within what you would
call a mental medium, is emotionally activated and supported, yes.

Q:  Okay, the way that I understand that in my life is, sometimes when I
meet someone, I feel an enormous amount of energy for that person, and
unconditional love. And if I was to judge that... in our society it could
be just construed as sexual energy.

B:  Yes.

Q:  But I feel that there is an enormous depth of understanding for that
person's being.

B:  Yes.

Q:  And in our judgment, I should not have that understanding. So that's
why when you said that telepathy and love have a great connection...

B:  That explains how you feel.

Q:  Yes, that explains it very much. But I don't know how to explain it to
them.

B:  Exactly as you just explained it to me.

Q:  Yes, but...

B:  Recognize that your willingness to have unconditional love for them /as/
/they are/ does not mean they have to understand and/or, quote/unquote,
return it.

Q:  True enough. No, I don't feel like I need that reciprocation. I feel
like my love is complete within itself. And also... then why does it seem
like my expression of that sharing... I think it's like the "totalness" of
it scares people.

B:  Now, you /know/ why. You know, because individuals may not be in touch
with all portions of themselves in that way. And may be shocked, in your
terms, to find out that those portions they are not willing to get in touch
with are available to you.

Q:  Right, but they chose that interaction!

B:  Obviously. But again, you also know that for many individuals on your
planet that that choice is not conscious.

Q:  Okay, so I judge myself for not being discreet sometimes, and
approaching them in a way that I have an imaginary picture of how /I/
/would/ /like/ the reaction to be.

B:  All right. To be colloquial, in your language, you can have the love
and still, quote/unquote, respect their space. All right?

Q:  So what I'm seeing is that there isn't complete integrity within my
being to externally consider /them/?

B:  Yes.

Q:  In the sense of impetuously...

B:  To some degree, you may be a little bit impatient. But simply
recognize, again, that the idea of functioning within your integrity is to
include the variable of how /they/ feel about the interaction as well.
Because if you are unconditional, then no matter how they feel, that is all
right to you, you still love them. And you will express it in whatever way,
shape or form makes them comfortable. For if you love them, you wish to
make them comfortable as well.

Q:  Yes. There is one other area I would like to talk to you about.
Sometimes when I'm communicating with you, you go: "Yes. Yes!" (Spoken
brusquely)

B:  /You/ interpret it as impatience.

Q:  Okay. Okay!! (AUD: laughter) No, no. That's what I wanted... wait a
second now! You... /you/ just judged that.

B:  Yes.

Q:  Okay, now I...

B:  Did you like it?

Q:  No. That was one of my questions, and you answered it for me: You
choose to judge us sometimes, right?

B:  Only as a reflection.

Q:  Okay. Okay... now what I feel is: I'm a flower and I'm unfolding, and
I'm trying to express something to you, and I feel like you are pushing my
process. And so...

B:  All right.

Q:  Okay, that's /my/ choice. Okay?

B:  Yes.

Q:  And so, I don't mean to be disrespectful to you, but what I'm saying is
get back. Let me unfold at my own speed.

B:  Hello? Does this sound like some of the people you interact with?

Q:  (Long pause)

B:  Now can you see it from their point of view? And does that assist you
in seeing how /you/ feel to them sometimes?

Q:  Yes. Ooooh, yes. (AUD: laughter)

B:  Thank you for allowing me to be a loving reflection of yourself.

Q:  And you are. You truly are.

B:  Well, thank you /so/ /much/.

Q:  Thank you.

B:  Sharing!