*Payoffs and Generating Your Reality*


Q:  I'm working with the Lazaris tape that you mentioned to us a couple of
months back... "Secrets of Manifesting" what you want.

B:  Yes.

Q:  In cleaning up the tools to use for manifestation, I find it difficult
to find out what my payoffs are, and my blocks are quite large. I wonder...

B:  If you say so.

Q:  I wonder if you can shed some light on what...

B:  Why do you believe your blocks are large? And first and foremost, what
is your definition of a block?

Q:  The denial that I have a payoff for negative action in my life.

B:  Denial that you have a payoff for a negative action. Would you clarify
that please?

Q:  Okay. I'm exhibiting lack.

B:  You are exhibiting lack?

Q:  Yes. I don't have the kind of car that I want, and the money that I
want to do the things that I want. And I don't know - he says find out what
your payoff is, and I can't imagine why I want to do this.

B:  All right. Perhaps one suggestion, only a suggestion: to allow you to
discontinue looking at it as a lack, and focus on the things that you
already have. So that you know you already are abundant in one way, and
that you can be abundant in other ways - rather than assuming that you lack
anything.

Q:  Hmm.

B:  Because if you are approaching it from that end, that point of view,
then you are only reinforcing the idea that you are not abundant - that you
lack something. Approach it from the point of view that you already are
abundant in whatever ways you have needed to be abundant. And that you can
be abundant in other ways, more expanded ways - rather than assuming that
just because you are not, right now, abundant in a particular way means
that you lack abundance at all. You follow me?

Q:  Mhmm.

B:  So examine the other end of your tool as well.

Q:  Okay.

B:  Now, it also does not necessarily have to be that complex; it may be as
simple as you simply have the habit of generating that particular type of
scenario. So whether you actually have an ingrained belief that you need to
suffer, you may simply be in the habit of generating the reality the way
you are generating it.

So, allow yourself to know that you are in the process of creating new
habits now. And that it is not necessarily so that you have to dig and
scrape for that deep, dark secret you are holding from yourself. You follow
me?

Q:  Ha ha. Yes, I do.

B:  You do not have to dig quite so hard.

Q:  Okay.

B:  Thank you.

Q:  Thank you.