*Healing With Love* Q: I want to ask a very mundane question about a person I am trying to help. B: Nothing is mundane. Q: I mean earthly. B: So? Q: This girl I'm referring to... she is right now in the County Hospital in the psychiatric ward. B: All right. Q: She went out of her mind, possibly through the use of drugs. And what I now observe after two months, with her inability to "come back" to reality is... B: To which reality? Q: To being... to acting in a normal way. B: You mean the mass agreed upon reality? Q: Well... what shall I say? In a way that's not disruptive to her life. B: All right. Q: I mean, to be in a County Hospital in a psychiatric ward, and to be in the hands of the authorities and not to have any control over your own life, is what I'm talking about. B: Oh, she has control. Q: Yes, I agree. She appears to have multiple personalities, and those personalities come and go. So what my question is about is, would you have some idea of the way she could come out of it? B: Well, let me ask you a question first, if I may? Q: Sure. B: Do any of the so-called multiple persona exhibit any negative traits, in your terms? Q: Yes. She acts like a three-year-old child. B: Oh! One moment... (AUD laughs) ... why is that negative? Q: That's not negative, but... B: When we say negative, we are expressing the term in the meaning: are any of them in your terminology harmful to anyone else? In your terms, perhaps, physically violent, accosting? Q: Yes. B: Are any of those traits present? Q: Yes. B: All right. Lack of integrity in other words. Q: What I meant by a three year old child being negative was that, when you're a twenty-six year old child and you act... you go into somebody's house and you pee on their floor and you mark their walls, and you go around hiding things and taking things, and doing things like driving a car around the streets and going around to telephone booths and calling the police and telling them... etc. I could name millions of incidents; she's done too much. She's been in and out of the hospital four times. B: All right. Q: So that's not negative to me, it's just destructive to herself. B: It can be an expression of lack of integrity. Maybe - maybe not. Certain cases, yes, certain cases, no. Q: So my question is... is she what would be called, possessed, and does she need to be exorcised? B: Obsessed perhaps, yes. Not possessed. Q: So she isn't possessed by some other... B: Oh, no one can be. No one can be. Possession is completely self- created. It is simply an identification with a negative idea, to the point where you relinquish - apparently relinquish - control. Everyone is always in control, even if they create the illusion that they are under the control of something else. That is only an illusion. It may serve their purposes. Perhaps they are running from something in that way - something within themselves. Which is what we generally perceive is what this individual has done. They have learned to run from so many aspects of the self that they now have created a "loop" in which they can find no way to reconnect, to bridge the idea of communication from the realities they choose to experience, to the reality of your average society. In a sense, an obsession of this nature can be assisted, perhaps, by allowing yourself to focus upon whichever aspects or personalities of the total being are in your estimation of a positive nature - or can be expressed in a positive way. Many times the positive aspects can be, in your terms, induced to converse with the negatively expressed aspects. And in conversing with the negatively expressed aspects within the self, perhaps, can transmit to those negative aspects the understanding that by expressing the self negatively they are only reinforcing the idea of powerlessness. Now, in a sense, they are creating scenarios that are analogous to the running away from themselves. They are creating the state that you call paranoia. Paranoia is only an expression of running from the self. Running from aspects that the self fears to face, because they do not believe they can be integrated in a loving and positive way. This individual, in exploring this, needs to be taught that the positive aspects that they are, and the negative aspects that they are, are never apart - are always together. That no matter where the negative aspects run, the positive aspects will always be there, to help, to love, to assist. Most important is the recognition of love; unconditional love for all aspects. Even though some aspects may express themselves in negative ways, in ways that represent lack of integrity, the first step is to still love those aspects unconditionally. For only by showing the individual a reflection of unconditional love can the positive aspects of that individual learn, by example, how to siphon that unconditional love to the negative aspects within themselves; to talk to themselves, which is what they are doing - one aspect conversing with another aspect. And in that ability to then convince them within themselves - the negative aspects - that there is no need to run, there is no-where to run, because there is no outside - everything is right there. Unconditional love, the vibration itself, is the most powerful integrating vibration. And if you are in touch with this individual and willing to express unconditional love, then in a sense, it can interject itself within the circuitry of the communication that that individual has with all the aspects of themselves. And by, in your terms - now I am being very colloquial - interrupting the negative communication, you can allow the positive communication to be taken along with it. So that at least the information that the negative aspects of that individual is receiving will be matched by positive information - along with the negative information they are constantly feeding to reinforce those negative aspects. You can literally "splice" into their circuitry, their neural circuitry, by radiating a field of unconditional love and reflecting to them, the power that they are - the belief in you that they are an aspect of infinite creation, the belief in you that they can communicate with the totality of themselves as the whole being. You can literally splice into their communication network to themselves, and feed them positive information about themselves. Which can then tip the scale; tip the balance of the information that they send to all aspects of themselves. Bit by bit, slowly but surely, that information will leak into their system, and fortify their system, so it makes it less likely that negative information will even be able to be transmitted along their neuronic pathways to negative aspects. So they will in a sense, "die out," of malnourishment, and will have to seek nourishment from the positive information. Which will allow them to re-establish their foundations, to grow and re-connect the /whole/ system of the person. Do you follow me? Q: Yes. B: Does that assist you? Q: Very much. B: Radiate that love. It is a true electromagnetic pulse. Q: And that's all that is necessary? That will tip the scales? B: If you believe that is all that is necessary, yes. If you send along your doubts then they will be bubbles in your transmissions - gaps. An assistance for you, perhaps, will be to place yourself /first/ in the seven and one half cycle vibration of your Earth, before you transmit; so that you are keyed and harmonized and synchronized with the love of the Earth crystal. Then you can simply send that pulse which can be of great assistance in stabilizing their foundation. So you may wish to syncopate yourself first before you undergo a meditation of transmission of love to them. If that will assist you, then do that. Q: The process of syncopation is like a breathing process... B: You can breathe with... yes. Place yourself in a receptive state, in a giving state, and if you wish, allow yourself to simply think of the Earth vibration and place yourself in that state that approximates seven and one half cycles per second. Simply think about it and you can take yourself there. You follow me? Q: Yes. Thank you. B: Thank you very much.