*Frequency Alignment and Relationships*


B:  All right, I'll say: did you have a question?

Q:  I have a question. Hello.

B:  Hello.

Q:  I have a situation involving myself and my husband and my son. At the
moment there is some disharmony in the relationship.

B:  Disharmony, all right.

Q:  In the last three months I have learned a great deal about what it is
that I do want -- something which excites me, as you would say.

B:  All right.

Q:  I have changed my operating basis radically, and I believe I am doing a
lot of the right things to bring about the outcome that I desire.

Q:  All right.

B:  In order for it to occur, of course, requires participation from my
husband.

B:  Why?

Q:  Because my desire has to do with achieving harmony within the family
unit.

B:  Allow us to delineate some ideas about harmonics.

Q:  All right.

B:  Everyone is not just isolated to the level in which you think you
typically operate. Everyone exists on every level there is to exist upon
already -- now. The portion of them you are dealing with at any given
moment, the version of them you are dealing with at any given moment, is
reflective of the frequency level you are on. When you change the frequency
level you are on, then the version of them you will deal with will be the
one representative of the frequency level you have changed to. They, that
version of them, will already be there and will be equal to the idea that
that frequency represents.

Q:  Does that mean I have another frequency yet to go to, in order to get
what I want?

B:  To some degree, you have simply, let us say, instead of going from
frequency A to frequency B, are holding at frequency A.5. Frequency A.5
being that you are waiting in expectation to see certain things you think
are necessary to see before you allow yourself to go all the way to
frequency B. Trusting in you doing so will automatically allow the
situation around you to change, because the situation around you will only
be a reflection of the change you have made. If there is anything in your
reality you wish to see changed, then change yourself and it will change.

However, you may in your assumptions and expectations be assuming that you
will be dealing, or must deal, with the same individual to whom you are
referring to as your husband. Recognize that when you make a change to
another frequency and are dealing with that version of them, it isn't the
same person anyway. So why continue to insist that it must physically be
the same person? Because even if it is the same physically appearing
person, if you sense the difference in them, it isn't the same person --
literally, really, so why do you insist that it must appear to be the same
person?

Now, you do not have to answer that at this point; this is mostly
rhetorical. We simply bring it up to point out that, paradoxically, when
you remove the need for it to be the same person that you must deal with
after you make a change, that is when you most often open up to the
probability that it will be the same physical person. Because in making no
demands on them, you then give them the best opportunity to also change
within themselves, according to the change they perceive within you.

However, when you change, whoever it is that needs to be there to be
reflective of the change you have made will be the person and people in
your life. And they will feel like the right people because they will be on
your wavelength; you will be on theirs. So even if your husband decides to
be on your wavelength, it won't be the same husband -- literally. Because a
person is not who or what you are; it is an idea construct to represent the
idea your consciousness is being at any given moment. You follow me?

Q:  Yes, pretty much.

B:  Does this assist you to some degree?

Q:  Yes. May I...?

B:  Does it allow you to relax a little bit?

Q:  A little bit.

B:  All right. Continue.

Q:  What I'm getting from that is that I should cease...

B:  Not should. "I can choose to."

Q:  I can choose to stop spending my time expecting things, and to get on
with doing some of the things that I indeed feel like doing.

B:  Very good! Because then you will be /being/ the person to whom these
other people you desire to interact with can come. That's why you are on
A.5 and they can't find your frequency. "Where is she? Where did she go?
She's not really who she was, and she's not really being who she could be.
Where did she go; we can't find her. There's nothing to relate to." You
follow me?

Q:  Yes.

B:  You have slipped in between the known frequencies. You are in a holding
pattern. As soon as you begin to be representative of who you know you are,
you will burst forth on the scene clear as a bell, and then people will be
able to find you. Then they will have something to interact with, and
whoever it needs to be will be the appropriate individual or individuals
that represent the frequency you are now tuned into. You follow me?

Q:  Yes, I do. Thank you very much.

B:  Thank you. Sharing.