*Descriptions of Behavioral States*


Q:  Can I ask you a question about certain human emotions, which switch on
when you seem to deviate from integrity?

B:  Yes.

Q:  Could I have just brief descriptions of these: what is anger?

B:  Anger is alignment with what you know to be true for you. Anything that
lasts longer than 10 to 15 seconds is no longer anger, but judgment.

Q:  Okay, what is fear?

B:  Fear is the recognition that you may be operating on a frequency that
does not necessarily represent an alignment with what you find to be true
for you. And it adds energy in a certain way to accelerate you and bring
you into the present. The negative effects that fear can have, again, are
only the judgment of the fear - that it is something that does not serve
you.

Q:  I see. And what is grief?

B:  Grief, again, is the judgment that you are not connected to a portion
of yourself. That you can, quote/unquote, lose something, somewhere - as if
there were somewhere for something to be lost to.

Q:  That's very good. What is resentment?

B:  It is, in your terms, connected to the idea of jealousy, envy. It is a
judgment upon oneself that one does not contain what one sees in another,
and does not think it attainable. But recognize, from our point of view, if
you can see it, you have to contain it.

Q:  Thank you. What is loneliness?

B:  Again, the idea of the separation of yourself from the rest of All That
Is that you are. That belief that while you are unto yourself, one idea,
one universe - a separate universe in that way - that the idea does not
contain automatically the polarity that you are connected to everything,
and can never be alone.

Q:  Very good. The last one is on something that seems to be a chronic
condition, rather than a temporary condition. I have two girls in my
office. One of them understands insurance perfectly; the other one doesn't
understand it at all. So she calls herself stupid. What is stupidity and
intelligence, which seem to be fixed during one lifetime?

B:  Thank you. It is not fixed, but the idea simply is, at any given
moment, what an individual relates to as a vibration. For recognize that
someone who is, quote/unquote, stupid in one thing, is brilliant at
something else.

Q:  Mhmm.

B:  The idea is simply selectivity. The recognition of the vibration that,
in your terms, truly excites you, and (that which) doesn't.

Q:  Okay...

B:  It can also... it can also be a conscious, or an unconscious, refusal
to recognize that you are complete, and do contain all the information you
need to contain at any given moment.

Q:  That seems to be fixed for one lifetime; you don't get...

B:  It can be, but it does not have to be; and in particular, because this
is the transformational life upon your planet, it is less likely that it is
fixed for the entire life.

Q:  Hmmm, why does a person create that problem, though? That, for her, is
a very big problem, which she doesn't seem to...

B:  Yes. Because they wish to experience what it is like to be limited to
that extent. Because it is one of the experiences you can participate in,
within All That Is. And it also may be serving other individuals through
caring and compassion, to learn that they can be teachers as well.

Q:  What is judgment?

B:  Judgment is separation, limitation. It is the invalidation of the
different components within All That Is, the un-equalizing of the different
components that you perceive within All That Is.

Q:  But can't you make a positive...

B:  Preference. Preference is simply recognizing the vibration that relates
to you. Judgment is the invalidation of what you don't prefer as something
less that what you have chosen. You can also simply have an observation, so
to speak, that does not have to be a judgment.

You can simply observe that someone may be utilizing negative energy; that
does not have to be a judgment. Because you can simply recognize that you
prefer, say, in this case, the positive energy. And their preference of
negative energy is what they need to learn, so that is simply an
observation, not a judgment.

Q:  But if you tell them that they are manifesting negative energy, isn't
that a judgment?

B:  That can still be an observation, as long as the idea is that sharing
that with them is not an encroachment upon their rights, and not
enforcement upon your behalf that you think they should change - because it
would be "better" if they did. Then that is a judgment.

The idea of "judge not, lest ye be judged," is that when you judge another,
you become the vibration of judgment yourself. It is not that you are being
judged by something outside; there is no outside. You follow me?

Q:  Yes. Thank you.

B:  Thank you.