Death and Dying Q: Someone I work with recently called in sick. And then I learned later on that they were in the hospital, that they'd had an aneurysm, a stroke. And apparently the doctors had given them no hope... B: Well, that is all right; hope would not help them too much. Q: Yeah, that's true. And when I heard about it, I wanted to go there and do all the healing, and so on. And then I stopped myself, and I said, "wait a minute; let me get in touch with what is going on." And I sat down with myself, and I believed in him. And instead of going gung ho and bringing tapes and all this, I said, "wait a minute. Maybe he's going through something that I need to respect." And um... B: There are also many things you yourself can learn from it while that individual learns from it. Q: Yes. That's why I'm describing this and asking the question. I then went there, and his family was there; and we were all helping to heal him. And I've been doing some meditation; and he's now well, he was in a coma for three days, and he is now going to survive. B: Very good. We thank you for utilizing his chosen way of allowing each and every one of you to blossom, of luring you into your higher selves. This was by the idea of an agreement to shock you, in a sense, into a different state. To focus you on the idea of the heart energy, to know that unconditional love is what will connect all of you, and allow all purposes in life to be revealed. We thank you for using the scenario in a positive way and thereby generating the positive result. Q: Thank you for your sharing and your observation. B: Thank you! Sharing! Q2: A very dear friend of mine just passed away from cancer last week. She was 32, and she left a husband and two children that... I want to know where her soul is right now, and how she's doing in her transition to the other world. B: Always there is the assistance that is necessary to acclimate the being to the new understanding, the new perspective in, what you call, the astral realms. There is orientation going on; there is now the understanding of what the creation of disease is. There is also the opportunity being presented to this individual that she can function for a while as spiritual guides for her own children. There may be, may be, may be -- for this is not yet decided -- but there may be an opportunity for this individual to reincarnate as one of her own children's children. May be. You follow me? Q: Yes. That's what I really wanted to know. She was a very enlightened being, and she shared a lot of wonderful light and love with many people... B: Yes. Q: And she had over 500 people at her memorial service. And I just had this thought, that I don't want to continue to create, is that once you get there, there is no longer any need to be alive on this level, and so you die. And she got there at a very young age. And so it was like... my self started saying, "you don't want to strive anymore for getting perfect, because if you do, there you go." B: All right. We understand what you are saying. However, recognize that you will never attain perfection, no matter how much you strive anyway. For you are already perfect now. You can become any sort of different perfect idea you wish to be. You can become a more expanded perfect idea, but you will always be just as perfect. You follow me? Q: Yes. I guess she just seems to have everything together except her health. B: Understand there is a reason for the timing. That is not an indication of an imperfection; it is an indication of the timing that was necessary so that she could now be of assistance in another way. The idea was that she was accelerated to the point where then she could accelerate herself to another level, to be of assistance in another way - in the way she agreed to be of assistance to those individuals still physical. She can now, in many ways, actually do the things she agreed to do. If she had remained physical, she would not necessarily have been able to do so. She is now going to lure them into more of themselves, because they are stretching to reach her. You follow me? Q: Yes. B: Everything functions within perfect timing - everything. It was simply a convenient way to accelerate the idea of the physiological death. You follow me? Q: Yes. And that's helping in my own grief over her loss. For as much as I know that she is now free of the physical pain that racked her physical body for so long, I had my own sadness for missing her. B: All right. Of course, recognize there is no loss, for she still exists; and she is still here and now, in her dimensional way. And the idea that many individuals, in your terms, who do choose to accelerate themselves in life -- not that they have to, but simply many of them have chosen -- that if there is going to be any exploration of negativity, of pain, then many of them choose to accelerate it rapidly, so in a sense, they will get it all out of the way. The next life this individual has -- if she chooses to live again -- will be one of complete and absolute ecstasy, for the time frame in which she will be born will be very solidly within the next transformational age. You follow me? Q: Yes. B: She has, in that brief spasm, if you will, of pain, completely accelerated herself beyond the complete old karmic cycle. She has lived, in that brief spasm, what other individuals may have chosen to experience as lesser negativity in many lifetimes. And that was, for her, a measure of how powerful she knew she was. She is still that powerful, and more. Feel her power, not the loss -- because there is no loss. Feel the power that she knew she had to have created the scenario in that way, and you will be bathed in the idea of that being. And you will then allow that being to allow you to be bathed in your own energy of self-empowerment. Identify with the power that she is. You follow me? Q: I sensed that very much at her memorial service. B: Yes. Q: Is she fourth or fifth dimensional now? B: Let us say fourth, basically -- fourth non-physical. For in that way, the fourth non-physical would be the level that maintains a connection to the earth plane, so it can still be of assistance in many different ways. Fifth density would usually take that being beyond the realm of the earth plane. For now, she is, in your terms, hanging around to be of assistance and guidance. Thank you. Q: Thank you very much.