CREATIVE RELATIONSHIPS First, we will begin with exploring the relationship of you to yourself. Because when you talk about creative relationships with other people-if the one you have with yourself is not creative it is unlikely anyone else is going to experience it. We will also discuss the idea of attraction and the idea of involvement in creative relationships. Now, you are all children and creative relationships should be child's play. So let's first talk about the idea of attraction: attracting yourselves to relationships, attracting relationships to you. Very often you will do the following thing: you will finally allow yourself to discover what you are-by interacting with a number of different individuals that represent what you are not. You will finally allow yourself to be validated through the process of elimination. You will perhaps look back upon different relationships and say, "Oh, that wasn't me and that wasn't me, so this must be what I am." You can continue to do that for the remainder of your life if you really want to, or you can decide right here and now who and what you prefer to be. continues...