*Creating With Integrity And Unconditional Love*


Q:  In addressing the first question this evening, you stated that the
actions we take are those which should excite us the most, and the last...

B:  Not "should." What excites you the most is most representative of what
you can do in life most effortlessly. Not that you should; there are no
shoulds. It is up to you to decide whether you wish your life to be a
struggle or not.

Q:  All right. If I understand the last question, you were stating that we,
in a sense, exist in a perfect state at all times.

B:  Yes.

Q:  Now, sometimes we take actions, which affect and perhaps hurt others.
What of social responsibility, right and wrong, justice...?

B:  Thank you. First of all, recognize that if you are acting within
integrity, then what you are expressing is the following idea: you are as
powerful as you need to be to create anything you want in your life without
having to hurt anyone else or yourself in order to create it.

Anyone who believes they must control, force upon anyone else, dominate
anyone else, force themselves upon anyone else, is not expressing
integrity, is not expressing power. They are expressing belief in their own
powerlessness -- because they do not believe they are connected into the
idea of Infinite Creation in a way that allows them to know they have all
the ability they need to create what they want.

So the idea of right and wrong are not usually labels that we prefer. We
prefer positive and negative action, because right and wrong, good and bad
are value judgments and are subjective. Because many individuals can be
doing a positive action, an integrative action, and other individuals can
value-judge it to be wrong or evil.

There can be individuals who are doing negative actions, actions which lack
integrity, and other individuals can think, "This is right and good." So
right/wrong, good and evil are not of much use to us as precise definitions
of the type of energy and the type of action that is being enacted. So we
prefer positive and negative energy.

Positive energy is simply any act that is integrative in nature and leans
toward the understanding that you have all you need at any given moment to
create what you desire, without having to force anyone on anyone else -- or
any thing on anyone else.

Negative action is that which assumes that you are not that powerful and
therefore, that the only way you can create what you desire is to dominate
and forcibly control the reality around you -- not realizing that you are
creating the reality around you anyway, and that it is already under your
control.

Q:  So those who act without integrity are negative - and we really need
not deal with them because they are creating their own environments, and we
should be beyond that? In other words, how are -- those who act without
integrity -- how are they dealt with, and what is their effect? How do we
get beyond...?

B:  If you are acting with complete and utter integrity, and out of
unconditional love for all creation, first and foremost, because of the
vibration you create yourself to be, you will usually not find yourself
interacting with individuals who are not of that vibration. Or if you do,
you will not be able to interact with them, and they will not be able to
interact with you in a way that will affect you negatively -- because you
will simply not choose to create negative effects in your life. You will
not simply choose to attract the idea of a negative effect in your life.

The idea of responsibility is that you are responsible not for anyone, but
you are responsible /to/ everyone. You are responsible to everyone to be the
fullest possible representation of the idea you are that you can be. But
you cannot be responsible for the choices of anyone else.

If you know, in interacting with another individual, that you are acting in
complete integrity and you are not consciously hurting them, or being
consciously malicious to them, then anything they choose to feel as a
reaction is not your responsibility. You follow me so far?

Q:  Yes, I do.

B:  Now, the idea again of someone who acts outside of their integrity and
forces something on someone else is someone who is expressing
powerlessness. They do not believe they can create the reality they desire
without involving the change in other people -- without forcing that change
in other people. They do not understand that the only thing they have to do
is change themselves to see a change in the reality in which they exist.

Therefore, if you are acting in total integrity and unconditional love when
you see such a circumstance, you can reflect to these individuals that what
they are doing is not as they think it is -- an expression of power. It is
an expression of powerlessness.

Any individual who has to force a point of view on someone else obviously
does not believe in the power of that point of view. Otherwise they
wouldn't have to force anything. If something -- if a point of view is that
powerful and is that positive -- you don't have to convince anyone to do
it. Everyone will jump to do it, because they will see that it works and
creates the reality and the lives they desire. Anything that works --
people will jump at to do. All you have to do is let them know it exists
and look out! Stand back.

But if you find that you must force a point of view upon anyone else, then
you don't believe in the power of that point of view because it is not
working for you. You do not feel you have the ability to create and control
the reality in which you exist. So you say, "By golly, no one else will be
able to create the reality they want either. I feel I am sinking; I feel I
am powerless; I feel I am going down the tubes and I'm going to take as
many as I can with me."

Because, as you say, misery wants company; it does not feel that it exists
alone. The reason individuals force themselves on other people is because
they feel that they are alone, and they are therefore forcing themselves to
create company. If they would understand they are never alone, that they
are connected to the Infinite Creation and they can create whatever they
desire in their lives with integrity, they will always be surrounded by
loving examples and reflections of that integrity.

So any time you see an individual in a situation expressing lack of
integrity, love them. Love them unconditionally. Show them, as an example,
the power you are reflecting to them. And you can let them know that if
they can see in you the ability to have the manifestable life they have
always desired, then their ability to see that in you, or to see that in
any individual they are envious of -- their ability to see that /is/ the
ability to be that. You cannot conceive and perceive what you do not
contain.

Jealousy need not exist; envy need not exist, when you understand that
jealousy and envy are the products of a belief system that says if you see
something in someone else, you don't contain that. You think they are the
ones that have the monopoly on that idea. But the idea is that if you do
see that in someone else, you have the ability to be that as well, or you
wouldn't be able to even perceive it in your reality at all. You can teach
them that. Is any of this making sense to you?

Q:  All of it. Thank you.

B:  Thank you very much. Would you all wish to take a break?

Q:  Yes, thank you.

B:  Then enjoy a short break and we will resume contact.