*Childhood and Self-Awareness* Q: Can you speak about children? The children choosing to come into hard situations and growing up, and believing in a lot of what you say, and also experiencing a lot of pain. B: All right. First of all, do recognize that many of the children now being born upon your planet will not forget as much as you have forgotten. And in this way, many of these children may actually remind /you/ as to what these connections are - many of these connections being connections that have come up through many past lives. Many of the hard situations that many of these children may experience may simply be remnant situations that they needed to deal with, in the relationships that were formed in past life situations. Or maybe they have chosen to be born into difficult situations, family situations, in order to allow the adults in that situation to learn from the child the things that the adults need to learn. There can be as many reasons for a child choosing a difficult situation to be born into and grow up in as there are children. But more and more you will find that the children that are now being born into your society will be totally, not only of a different generation, but totally of a different culture altogether. They will have been, in a sense, for lack of a better term, processed, now, mainly through the auspices of the energy vibrations of Arcturus and Sirius, and also many of them will be returning Pleiadians who chose to be born on your planet to assist in the transformation at this time. Many of them will be beings of light and express it very early on. And again, as we have said, many of them will remind the adults - who have chosen to forget who they are - /who/ they are. But any difficult situations will simply be the remnant processes that the individual has chosen to be born into, that they feel they believe they need in their lives, to learn what they need to learn. And in this way, you will find that more and more of these children, now that they are being born into a new culture, a new belief system, a new generation, will no longer need to choose family situations that bring inherent difficulty with them. Do you follow me? Q: Yes. B: For the end of the reincarnational cycle is at hand, and you will find therefore that all of the contracts, all of the agreements and all of the arrangements are now finalizing themselves within this transformational life, or within the next one or two following. Then you will find that many individuals upon your planet will simply live longer lives, not needing to have experiences shuffled off or segregated into many separate lives; and that many individuals living now will actually still physically be alive in three hundred of your years. And that in approximately, what you call two to three thousand of your years, your society will have completely finalized anything that it needed to learn within the physical reincarnational cycle of planet Earth, and will no longer be physical. Allowing themselves to make way for the next group of consciousnesses who may be willing to use the Earth vibration for their own understanding, and their own tutoring of the ideas they need to experience. Q: And how would you suggest that adults who have endured these difficult childhoods - for whatever reason they are in creation with that - function now, in particular in their male/female relationships, and how that is being worked out on the planet? B: All right. First of all, I would suggest that you begin to recognize that you chose what you went through for your own reasons. So get in touch with how it served you, in a positive way. Many individuals will choose to be born into lives of what they call diametrically opposed belief systems within their parents so that they have something to push against, to absolutely ensure that they will be brought up with a polarity belief system that will be more indicative of what is needed in this transformational age. Do you follow me? Q: Sure. B: So in that way, first of all, recognize that you knew what you were doing when you chose the family situation you were born into, and you still know what you are doing. Another suggestion would be to recognize that if you are now at the point where you /realize/ that you made that choice, then as soon as you realize that it was a choice, you are out of the cycle, you are no longer attached to it, and then the idea of that past will no longer be connected to the present. The past does not control the present; the past does not rule the present. You are, at any given moment, whatever definition you prefer to be. As long as you continue to believe that what you were in the past must control what you are now, you will continue to create a life in which you think you are controlled by that past. But as soon as you recognize that you are aware, consciously, as a physical being, of knowing that you made the choices you made to get you where you are - and you simply can /be/ what you want to be now - then you can simply act like what you want to be, now. And that what you want to be now has nothing to do with what you used to be. Q: Right. And could you address jealousy as a human emotion and how it serves us? And male/female... B: Jealousy is an invalidation, an invalidation of yourself. Jealousy, in this way, as it is expressed upon your planet, is when an individual sees something in someone else and believes: "I don't have that and I want that." But recognize, if you have the ability to see something in someone else, you must contain it, because you can only perceive what you contain. So jealousy only results from the belief that what you see in others you don't have. When you recognize that what you see in others that you desire to be real for you, you /do/ have, and that your very ability to have seen it in someone else is an indication that you have the ability to be that way yourself, there will be no need for jealousy. For you will able to then say: "I perceive something I have desired to be in that individual, and oh, happy day, now that I know that I can see it in that individual, that means I have the ability to manifest it just as easily." (AUD: laughter) Do you follow me? Q: Yes. B: There is no need for jealousy when you validate yourself and love yourself unconditionally, and love all beings unconditionally, and recognize that you are a /complete/ being. You are not incomplete. You may believe you are incomplete, you may believe you see something in someone else that you don't have; but that's only a perspective, only a point of view. It is your opportunity to recognize that when you see something in someone else that you desire to be, you can recognize that you have the potential to be that idea. Now, when you see something in someone else you do /not/ desire to be, it still means you contain just as equal a potential to be that idea, but you don't have to, if you don't prefer it. Simply recognize that everyone is a reflection. You are only looking at mirrors when you look at other people. So what you see... if you see something you do not prefer, simply recognize that the potential exists within you, because everyone contains every probable reality and method of expression, but if you do see something in someone you do prefer to be, then take it for granted that you also contain /that/ also - you contain that. Q: And with that dependency, or sense of need... B: It is not a dependency, it is not a need; it is a sense of self- awareness. If you are seeing a reflection of yourself in everyone, then you know you are complete. You are not dependent on anyone to complete you. You are complete. And when you begin to function as a complete individual, then you attract into your life individuals with whom you can /share/ your completeness. But that does not manifest as a dependency. Do you follow me? Q: Yes. So loneliness is an incompleteness... it's not even real... B: Yes. Q: But if such things are so unreal, what are the purposes for why they are felt? People are feeling them a lot in these last days as we walk through this doorway... B: Yes. Q: ... like loneliness... B: Yes, but one moment... one moment, understand that when you /feel/ something, that is not the first thing that occurs. Any feeling you ever create in your life only happens as a reaction to something you already believe to be true. Feelings are secondary to beliefs, they do not come first. It is not simply: "Well this is simply the way I /feel/ when this situation occurs." No. As we have said, no situation has built in meaning. You bring into every neutral situation a /belief/ about what that situation means. And if you bring into that situation a belief that that set of circumstances /means/ that you are going to be lonely, then of course you're going to feel lonely. But if you understand that your loneliness only stems from the fact that you believe that the situation you are involved with is inherently "loneliness creating," then you will not have to feel loneliness - by recognizing that you do not have to believe that the situation has to be manifested in that way. Do you follow me? Q: Yes. B/:/ When you understand that you are always -at the same time - alone /and/ connected to everything, then it is up to you to choose which way you believe you will function. So if you feel lonely, then that simply is an opportunity and an indication to you to realize that you believe in loneliness, and that you are not connected to the Infinite Creation; your choice; up to you. Now, if you choose to feel lonely because you chose to believe in loneliness, then accept that you chose to believe that way, and as soon as you accept that it was your choice to believe that way, then you will understand that you have the ability to choose to feel and believe another way. Do not deny it, do not run from it, do not attempt to get rid of that idea. There is nowhere to get rid of anything to. You are your own universe. Acknowledge that you obviously chose to believe in loneliness if you feel lonely. Ask yourself: " Well, how does it serve me to feel lonely? How does it serve me to believe in loneliness?" You will get an answer if you listen to yourself. Even if the answer is only that you chose to believe in loneliness, so that you could learn that you don't prefer to believe in loneliness. Q: I see. (Laughing) B: Because it makes you feel lonely, and you don't like it! So now that you have recognized why you chose to believe in loneliness, and now that you've had the experience, and you no longer need to have the experience, then choose another belief and you will get another feeling to go hand in hand. All right? Q: All right. And, last question: how can sound and dance best serve this planet at this time? B: By moving to whatever moves you. By allowing yourself to recognize that everything is vibration, and that when you discover for yourself what is the movement, what is the core, what is the vibration that hits home with /you/, then you will be RADIATING that tone. You will be MOVING that dance for all to see. You will be BEING the fullest facet of the multidimensional crystal you can be. And by simply moving to what you know is true for you, you give others the best opportunity to see in you that you are following your path, that you are living your dance, that you are playing your tune. Which lets them know that they can do the same. Do you follow me? Q: Yes. B: There may be vibrational tones that can generally assist many individuals in your society as well. You can explore with some of those generalized tones, and recognize that when you find the tone that moves you, what you are doing is you are finding your signature vibration. When you then recreate your signature vibration, your entire body chemistry and cellular structure and neural pathways will begin to vibrate according to that tone. When you impose upon - not in a negative way - identify /with/, allow your body to identify with the tone that moves you, the signature vibration, then you allow your body to go back to its zero rest idealized state. And in that state there is no imbalance, and no disease. Therefore, if you can assist another individual in finding their idealized signature vibration, and get them to recreate it so they can immerse themselves in that vibration, their cellular structure will begin to identify with that vibration. And they will allow their body - not make, not force - /allow/ their body to snap back to the zero rest state represented by that signature tone. Then they will not have disease at all. Understand, the only reason you have dis-ease or imbalance is because you /hold/ yourself out of balance. When you let yourself go, you will snap back to zero - the ideal blueprint, rest-state definition, of the consciousness that you are; and in that state there is no imbalance, therefore, no disease. So, a tonal vibration that represents a person's signature core vibration can allow them to have something to identify with, to allow them to snap back to zero. Do you follow me? Q: Yes. B: That is the dance you can share, if you are willing. But first and foremost, be your own dance, be your own tone, and live fully that which is true for /you/. Or anyone else you would like to assist will not believe that you can assist them, if they don't see you as a living example. You follow me? Q: Yes. B: Thank you very much! Q: Thank you.