Being a Women

B:  Good day. I have a question that has been on my mind for a long time.
And that is being a woman in the 90's my life has gradually led to my
spiritual path becoming most important. Having a family, a husband and
career...l have a lot of controversy within myself as to what should get
most of my attention.

B:  One moment.  Why are you making a segregation between the idea of
spiritual path, family, career and so forth?  Is it all not one life?

Q:  Yes.

B:  Does it all not have a place and fit in exactly as it needs to?  Is it
all not representative, in a sense, of the spiritual being that you are and
the physical expression of spiritual being that you are?

Q:  That's right, but I'm having difficulty expressing myself in these
areas.

B:  Perhaps it is simply because of how you assume you must.  The idea
again, first and foremost, is to be the best example you can be by being
the fullest person you know yourself to be.  If you are the fullest person
living the thing that gives you the most joy, then the sequence of events
that occur in the living of that thing will automatically allow you the
amount of time necessary to effortlessly relate to all aspects that
naturally belong in your life.  There is no conflict when you understand it
is all part of one idea, not different ideas that you must find or figure
out a way to fit together, as if they had no business belonging together.
It is all one thing.  If it is kept as a homogenous concept then you will
understand every thing is a part of the one thing.   And it will have its
proper place and timing and proper relationship within the overall life you
are living.  If you
look at these different things as segregated things that have to somehow be
cleverly worked together then you are creating more work for yourself, and
not allowing it to be as effortless as it could be. Are you following along
so far?

Q:  Yes, yes.  Absolutely.

B:  All right.  The idea is doing in your life what excites you the most,
and thereby fulfilling your mission, your purpose, and your service in
life. Then all the other people that wish to be with you, all the other
people you wish to be with that give you joy to be with, you will easily be
able to relate to them.  You will have the conscious commandment necessary
to make the decisions clearly that need to be made in your life relative to
all the other people that you interact with in your life. All these things
will come from insight, from the insight of your knowingness that you are
doing what you truly need to do.

Everything will blend smoothly as long as you maintain in that relationship
open, continual, honest communication about who you are at any given moment
and what you prefer at any given moment; and listen to who they are at any
given moment and who they prefer to be at any given moment--then you will
understand that naturally, synchronistically.  If you are being open, you
will only attract and be dealing with individuals who belong, and
therefore, what they want will automatically mesh, intermesh and interplay
with the things you want. Not that you necessarily have to want the same
thing but that your schedules, your relationships will intermesh easily,
naturally when you are open with each other about who you really are.  And
do not put expectations in the relationships about who you think each other
ought to be.  Make sense?  Does this help at all?  Is this addressing the
issue?

Q:  Yes, it is.  Absolutely. Thank you.

B:  Thank you.