*Being An Exception To The Rule* Q: Hi. B: Hi! Q: I have not had my period in quite some time. B: All right. Q: Any conventional... figure this one out for yourselves... any conventional tests that I've had have all come back negative. I'm not pregnant. B: Yes. Q: And I'm wondering. B: Wondering what? Q: I'm wondering... I guess they -- "they," /they/ - - told me that it would be best to... B: They? They-they. They-they-they. Q: ... to have a menstrual cycle at least every 3 months. B: Why? Q: Because they felt that it could turn cancerous if I didn't. B: Why? Q: Because I guess they're basing it on their statistics. B: Yes... so? Q: They didn't go into explicit... B: Do you fit the statistics? Or are you an exception to the rule? Q: I don't know whether l fit the statistics. B: You don't know? Decide right now! Q: Okay. No. I don't fit the statistics. B: Now: are you really worried about it? Or are you just being a good person... and playing along with them so that they will feel good about what they are telling you? Q: Well, it's not that I'm trying to make them feel good. B: No? Q: I think that I consider that the way I think, and the fact that I'm... B: In other words, you are using them just to check your belief system, yes? Q: That would be one way of saying it. B: All right. Was it an appropriate way of saying it? Q: It will do for now. B: Oh, thank you. You always have the capacity to do an internal check. Q: Well, I... internally I feel all right. B: Yes. Q: Sometimes I tend to be a bit of a procrastinator, so I don't look at things until they're smack in my face. So I don't know if this is one of those things. B: Sometimes that can be procrastination; sometimes it can be living in the moment. Depends on how you look at it. Q: Well, I've been looking at it the other way -- living in the moment -- for quite some time. B: All right. Q: But there's been a little thing in the back of my head, which told me: "Well, maybe you should go have a test, and all that." So l did. B: All right. And now you have had your test. Q: Right. B: And they are...? Q: They are negative. B: And therefore, you are still not at rest? Q: Well... and then I've been attempting herbally to force it to happen, and nothing is happening. B: All right then. If by aligning yourself with the "natural order of things," it still doesn't happen, then why not assume that you are now a part of the natural order of things the way you are? Q: Okay. B: Well, you don't have to. Don't sound so overjoyed! (Sarcastically): "Oh boy, oh boy. I'm the natural order of things." Q: I prefer to fully trust... B: "I prefer to fully trust." Q: I prefer to fully trust that everything's fine. I'm checking. B: Everything? Q: What do you mean by that? B: What does the word imply in your language? Q: Everything. B: Everything! Are you willing to trust that /everything/ is fine? Q: Yes. B: We know you meant everything with regard to the idea you specifically mentioned. But we have taken the liberty to include the broader definition of the word. Q: I gathered that. That was why I questioned. B: Yes, I know. Is everything fine? Q: Yes, everything is fine. B: Well, thank you very much. You know it is. You really do. And understand this: if, for some reason, you should decide to create something you did not prefer, by knowing that everything is fine, you will always give yourself ample opportunity to deal with it in a way that will also be just fine for you. Understand? Q: Mhmm. B: In other words, you will always catch everything in time -- always. Q: Okay. B: Thank you very much. By the way, to some degree, what the idea of not having the period is indicative of is one way to show you that you are completely living in the now. For time hasn't changed that much for you. And, in a sense, I could put it this way: since you stopped having it, for you, in a sense, a month hasn't gone by yet. Understand? Q: Yes, I understand that. B: Does that serve you? Q: Yes. Well, it's just kind of funny when you think time hasn't gone by. I understand that it's the dichotomy of things accelerating and standing still at the same time. B: Yes. Q: Okay. B: Does that serve you? Q: Yes, it does. B: Well, thank you very much. Q: Thank you. That means I haven't aged. Well, bye. B: You are getting younger every day. Sharing!